Think before you speak

People say things, hurt feelings is makes me wonder if they don't do it on purpose and play it off as innocent or just plain stupid. I could be wrong, maybe some people (person) didn't realize what she was saying would hurt me so bad, rip open (very new) healing feelings and scars. Maybe it was an accident, a slip of the tongue, better yet, maybe she is just so f&!%$#* stupid, or simple that she didn't realize what she was saying. Can someone really be that naive?

I tried, I really did, very hard to not let her talking upset me, but she wouldn't shut up. She talked and talked and talked some more, like she was puking stupid. It happened very quickly, it felt like it was an eternity, but in reality probably only 10-13 seconds. Long enough for what she was saying to register, for me to look at her with my "are you really saying this" and then the "shut the hell up" stair. All the while I am still thinking, this isn't happening which lead to me walking away from the conversation (and 2 other people). I was in tears by the time I hit the door. Still I was trying to make them stop, to turn off my head to ignore what was going on. Nothing worked. I went to my room and shut the door, ignoring my company and the problem.

If people would just think before they speak.

People are stupid

WARNING: If you don't want to read a blog by an angry person, bitching about stupid people, stop now and go away.

People are stupid. All people at some time or another are stupid!

For example, the small lever on the left side of your steering wheel, it maneuvers up and down, this is called the blinker. It turns on the blinking lights located on the left and right side of the back and front of the vehicle. These little lights let the people behind you know when you are going to turn or why you are stopping in the middle of the road presumably to turn, or maybe park.

The pretty lines with points, called arrows, painted in the, say Wal-Mart parking lot are directional cues. If you drive over an arrow pointing in the opposite direction than you are driving, you are going the wrong way. If it takes you 3 or 4 times to get your automobile straight(ish) in the parking spot, you were probably going the wrong way. If you do not have a little blue wheelchair printed either on your license plate or hanging from a tag on your rear view mirror, the convenient, large front parking spots... these are not for you. And parking in the fire lane, unless you are a firetruck, these are not for you either. Get your fat ass out of the car and WALK through the parking lot to the store, its not that far.

If I am standing in front of the deli, looking lovingly at the chicken fingers, I probably want to purchase some. Since they are located within a glass counter maned by two manly women wearing hair nets, I can not get them for myself. I need one of the hair nets to get them for me. I rudely interrupted their personal conversation and asked for a pound of chicken fingers. After they huffed and puffed and tried to stair me down, I got my chicken and a frown. These people are PAID to give me chicken fingers, don't be stupid give me the damn chicken.

Young kids, they need stimulus, exercise and discipline. My neighbors get none of these things. The mother gets in her car, every morning, warms it up, gets the 2 kids in and drives not 40 YARDS up the road to the bus, 40 maybe only 35 YARDS, YARDS, not miles. These 2 little kids climbs out of the car, get on the bus and the Mom backs back down the road into the drive way. STUPID. I used to walk to school every day, rain or shine, I loved it. It was my free time in the morning to kick rocks to school or talk to my friends.

And to end this wonderful bitching blog about stupid people.... One day my hubby tells me "The milk is bad" I stair at him and say, "All of it?" He lovingly chuckles and says, "No honey only to the top half... YES STUPID ALL OF IT!"

stupidity should hurt

stupid should hurt. I've said this before and I mean it. If stupid was painful, maybe there wouldnt be so many stupid people making stupid decisions. If stupid were painful, maybe pseudo-'team leaders' wouldn't waist time on dress code, color printer options or lists.

I dont know who all reads my blogs, so I very well could be sticking my foot right directly in my mouth. But everything I have and will say is true! Some folks may not like it, I DONT CARE! I am 37 years old, I am done playing kindergarten games. My work place has turned into a grown up version of romper room. Some folks say they are making decisions and arent, some are making decisions and not telling anyone about them. Still others are trying to change policies that mean exactly DICK, instead of concentrating on what they should be doing.

Some people are having meetings they dont remember, making decisions they cant recall and promising things they latter deny. AAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAA

frus·trate (frŭs'trāt')
tr.v. frus·trat·ed, frus·trat·ing, frus·trates
To prevent from accomplishing a purpose or fulfilling a desire; thwart:
To cause feelings of discouragement or bafflement in.
To make ineffectual or invalid; nullify.

That is the definition of my work situation.

you know you can only bang your head against the wall for so long before, 1. your head hurts, 2. you break your head or 3. the wall breaks.

Right now, my head hurts and it may be broken.